Goodbye Things

55 Tips to help you say goodbye to your things

  1. Discard the preconception that you can’t discard your things.
  2. Discarding something takes skill.
  3. When you discard somethings, you gain more than you lose.
  4. Ask yourself why you can’t part with your things.
  5. Minimizing is difficult, but it’s not impossible.
  6. There are limits to the capacity of your brain, energy and time.
  7. Discard something right now
  8. There isn’t a single item you’ll regret throwing away.
  9. Start with things that are clearly junk.
  10. Minimize anything you have in multiples.
  11. Get rid of it if you haven’t used it in a year.
  12. Discard it if you have it for the sake of appearance.
  13. Differentiate between things you want and things you need.
  14. Take photos of the items that are tough to part with.
  15. It’s easier to revisit your memories once you go digital.
  16. Our things are like roommates, except we pay their rent.
  17. Organizing is not minimizing.
  18. Tackle the nest (storage) before the pest (clutter).
  19. Leave your “unused” space empty.
  20. Let go of the idea of “someday”.
  21. Say goodbye to who you used to be.
  22. Discard the things you have already forgotten about.
  23. Don’t get creative when you’re trying to discard thing.
  24. Let go of the idea of getting your money’s worth.
  25. There no need to stock up.
  26. Feeling the spark of joy will help you focus.
  27. Auction services are a quick way to parts with your possessions.
  28. Use auctions to take one last look at your things
  29. Use a pickup service to get rid of your possessions.
  30. Don’t get hung up on the prices that you initially paid.
  31. Think of stores as your personal warehouse.
  32. The city is our personal floor plan.
  33. Discard any possessions that you can’t discuss with passion.
  34. If you lost it, would you buy it again?
  35. If you can’t remember how many presents you’ve given, Don’t worry about the gifts you’ve gotten.
  36. Try to imagine what the person who passed away would have wanted.
  37. Discarding memorabilia is not the same as discarding memories.
  38. Our biggest items trigger chain reactions.
  39. Our home aren’t museums, they don’t need collections.
  40. Be social, be a borrower.
  41. Rent what can be rented.
  42. Social media can boost your minimizing motivation.
  43. What if you started from scratch?
  44. Say “see you later” before you say goodbye.
  45. Discard anything that creates visual noise.
  46. One in, One out.
  47. Avoid the Concorde fallacy.
  48. Be quick to admit mistakes. They help you grow.
  49. Think of buying as renting.
  50. Don’t buy it because it’s cheap. Don’t take it because it’s free.
  51. If it’s not a “Hell Yes!” It’s a “No”
  52. The things we really need will always find their way back to us.
  53. Keep the gratitude.
  54. Discarding things can be wasteful. But the guilt that keeps you from minimizing is the true waste.
  55. The things we say goodbye are the things we’ll remember forever.

15 Tips for the next stage of your minimalist journey

  1. Fewer things do not mean less satisfactions.
  2. Find your unique uniform.
  3. We find our originality when we own less.
  4. Discard if you’re thought about doing so five times.
  5. If you’ve developed your minimalist skills, You can skip the “see you later” stage.
  6. A little inconvenience can make us happier.
  7. Discard it even if it sparks joy.
  8. Minimalism is freedom the sooner you experience it, the better.
  9. Discarding things may leave you with less,But it will never make you a lesser person.
  10. Question the conventional ways you’re expected to use things.
  11. Don’t think. Discard!
  12. Minimalism is not a competition. Don’t boast or Judge someone.
  13. The desire to discard ant desire to possess are flip side of the same coin.
  14. Find your own minimalism.
  15. Minimalism is a method and beginning.

12 ways I’ve changed since I said goodbye to my things

  1. I have more time.
  2. I enjoy life more.
  3. I have more freedom.
  4. I no longer compare myself with others.
  5. I stop worrying about how others see me.
  6. I’m more engaged with the world around me.
  7. I can focus better. I can concentrate on being me.
  8. I save money and I care more about the environment.
  9. I’m healthier and safer.
  10. My interpersonal relationships are deeper.
  11. I can savor the present moment.
  12. I feel true gratitude.

Fumio Sasaki

How to live like your Cat

Your Friend, The Cat

Your Cat is Free

Your Cat is Charismatic

Your Cat is Calm (Most of the time)

Your Cat Knows How to Assert Itself

Your Cat is Wise

Your Cat thinks About Itself First

Your Cat accepts Itself as it is

Your Cat loves Itself

Your Cat has a certain Swagger

Your Cat is Pround

Your Cat is the Center of Attention

Your Cat is Impenetrable to Judgement

Your Cat is Curious by Nature

Your Cat is In-De-Pen-Dent

Your Cat Brims with Self-Confidence

Your Cat knows how to Delegate

Your Cat knows how to take the time to Live

Your Cat Adapts to Everything Quickly

Your Cat loves Calm

Your Cat chooses its Own Company

Your Cat knows how to Rest, it loves to Sleep

Your Cat knows when to say no

Your Cat knows how to Avoid Conflict

Your Cat adores its Home, and marks out its Territory

Your Cat Trusts you

Your Cat is a Natural Boss

Your Cat is Tenacious

Your Cat is always Cautious

Your Cat has a huge need for Love

Your Cat is Serene by Nature

Your Cat knows what it wants, and is direct about it

Your Cat Dares to ask (All the time)

Your Cat is always Honest

Your Cat is Silent and Observant

Your Cat is a Sincere Friend

Your Cat Focuses on the Essential

Your Cat always remains Natural

Your Cat is Humble and Indulgent

Your Cat knows how to see the Fun in everything

Your Cat is Beautiful … and knows it

Your Cat is at Ease in all situations

Your Cat shows Empathy

Your Cat always has the Last word

Stephane Garnier

Wait I’m Working with Who?

The Sixteen most common Jerks at Work

The Pessimist

The Envier

The Intimidator

The Credit Thief

The Gossiper

The Lazy One

The Micromanager

The Competitor

The Narcissit

The Complainer

The Nitpicker

The Malicious One

The Backstabber

The Non-Responder

The Chatter

The Absent One

 

Eight Strategies for dealing with Jerks at Work

Disconnecting from Emotions

Refusing to play their game

Learning to neutralize conflict

Challanging bad behavior

Not sweating the small stuff

Learning by negative example

Not being a jerk yourself

Hiring slow Firing fast


Disconnecting from Emotions

Refuse to get caught up in the emotion

Take a look from the outside in

Figure out what buttons the jerk is pushing

Ask others what they think

Figure out what king of jerk you’re dealing with

Four ways to regulate your emotions

Don’t forget to breathe

Practice saying a mantra

Move your attention

Label what is happening

Refusing to play their game

Figure out what game the jerk is playing

Understanding how the jerk is manipulating you

Remove the buttons they keep pushing

Get the jerk out of your life

Enlist the help of others

Learning to neutralize conflict

Observe objectively

Identify emotions

Identify undelying needs

Involve employees to understand theimpact ot their behavior

Encourage resolution

Challanging bad behavior

Identify the bad behavior

Confront the perperator

Push back as necessary

Draw a line in the sand

At a last resort, Loop in your boss

Not sweating the small stuff

Exactly what is the bad behavior?

If it big deal, Then confront the problem

If it a little deal, Then ignore it

Focus on the positive

Change your perspective

Learning by negative example

Figure out who the jerks are in your organization

Take a close look at the behaviors that make them jerks

Compare them to the field guide in sixteen jerks

Learn lesson the field guide in sixteen jerks

Avoid doing what the jerks in your organization do

Not being a jerk yourself

Assess how people act around you

Get feedback from others

Take the feedback you get from others seriously

Set a goal

Follow Through

Hiring slow Firing fast

Take your time when you hire

Interview, Interview, Interview

Hire for alignment

Correct, Counsel, and Coach

Fire as a last resort

Peter Economy